Hello all! I recently found out about this forum, and I am excited to give it a try! So... here goes nothing.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and four days. We met while he was pre... everything, really. He hadn't even come out to himself yet. To give you a close timeline, we met on December 31st, 2014. We started dating January 10th, 2015. The longer we were together, I could tell he was always unhappy about something, but I could never figure it out.
Then, about a year into it, in December of 2015, he came out to me. I can't say that I reacted in the best of ways. I identified as a lesbian at the time, and his coming out scared the hell out of me (at that time). Me being scared terrified him, so he basically said "nevermind/just kidding" and we moved on. However, it was still in the back of my mind, and as we continued dating I could finally put a finger on his unhappiness.
The second coming out didn't take nearly as long. It happened late July/early August of 2016. This time I can say I reacted better, and explained myself about the first time. I had also done some soul searching, and realized I loved him. Which meant we were stuck together, no matter what.
Things moved quickly after that. He started seeing a therapist so he could get his T letter. He recieved his first shot of T on September 12th of 2016. I have done every shot since!! Yesterday was his four months on T, and we have decided together that its time to start saving/raising money for his top surgery.
So, please. If you can, donate. If you don't have the funds, share our story. I want his body, mind, and soul to finally align. I want to see him happy.
http://www.gofundme.com/kaels-top-surgery-2uffvsk
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and four days. We met while he was pre... everything, really. He hadn't even come out to himself yet. To give you a close timeline, we met on December 31st, 2014. We started dating January 10th, 2015. The longer we were together, I could tell he was always unhappy about something, but I could never figure it out.
Then, about a year into it, in December of 2015, he came out to me. I can't say that I reacted in the best of ways. I identified as a lesbian at the time, and his coming out scared the hell out of me (at that time). Me being scared terrified him, so he basically said "nevermind/just kidding" and we moved on. However, it was still in the back of my mind, and as we continued dating I could finally put a finger on his unhappiness.
The second coming out didn't take nearly as long. It happened late July/early August of 2016. This time I can say I reacted better, and explained myself about the first time. I had also done some soul searching, and realized I loved him. Which meant we were stuck together, no matter what.
Things moved quickly after that. He started seeing a therapist so he could get his T letter. He recieved his first shot of T on September 12th of 2016. I have done every shot since!! Yesterday was his four months on T, and we have decided together that its time to start saving/raising money for his top surgery.
So, please. If you can, donate. If you don't have the funds, share our story. I want his body, mind, and soul to finally align. I want to see him happy.
http://www.gofundme.com/kaels-top-surgery-2uffvsk